A few weeks
ago, I accidentally ended up with a different kind of dish soap than what I
usually get. I’m a big fan of Palmolive
Original, with all those shiny bubbles and squeaky-clean rinse, but I ended up with this oily, “soft-hand”,
flowery stuff. Within a few days,
everyone was complaining that our water tasted odd. Kaitlyn finally realized our problem: Our plastic drinking cups were absorbing the
flavor of the flowery-scented dish soap.
Our water tasted like roses. Ick.
As
Christians, we like to think that we are made of glass—or at least ceramic. We don’t absorb; we deflect. We rinse well. Nothing sticks. But the Bible says differently: We are plastic—and over time, we humans absorb
what we are exposed to, until eventually we are characterized by it.
It is
hypocritical to suggest that our lives are changed by a 30-minute sermon on
Sunday, but not affected by 13 hours of television the rest of the week; that
we are affected by 12 minutes of Bible reading in the morning, but
not by 8 hours of country music for the rest of the day.
God is the
One Who created us to be “plastic.” It is
this quality that allows God’s Word to transform us through constant
exposure. It’s what allows parents to
influence their children for God, and enables godly Christians to disciple new
believers. But in the wrong hands, our “plastic”
nature can harm us. God warns us of this
characteristic by admonishing us to “make no friendship with an angry man, lest
thou learn his ways.” He reminds us that
“evil communications corrupt good manners.”
When the
Allied forces stormed through Germany at the end of World War II and liberated
concentration camps, their grisly discoveries shocked the world. LIFE magazine photographers caught images
that still make us shudder—living skeletons blanketed in prison garb, staring
out from barracks. Even General
Eisenhower famously reacted upon his discovery of those awful camps and the real
story of the Third Reich that had lain hidden under Hitler’s deceptions and his
vigorous handshakes with cowards who had fallen under his spell.
Yet, beyond
the skeletons was a story of how real people learned how to live among monsters. They came back from Warsaw, Auschwitz, and Ravensbruck
with their stories of survival—how they sat on straw in the lice-ridden
barracks of Auschwitz, exchanging detailed recipes and stories, and playing
card games with pieces of rubbish they found.
Similarly, the POW’s of Vietnam came back home thirty years later, after
severe torture and isolation, and told how they named ants and rats, how they
played checkers with bits of gravel, and how they created intricate knocking codes
that went undetected by the cruel captors who guarded their cells. They
adjusted. In the face of horror,
they eventually shed their shock and learned how to live among demons.
The coping
mechanism that God created in us to help us survive life on this sinful planet is
part of our “plastic,” our ability to stop being shocked at what we see so that
we can proceed to make rational decisions that can save our lives.
I remember
one of our kids coming home one summer and telling me how an adult had shown “concern”
that we homeschool our children. This
man told our daughter, “It’s too bad your parents have sheltered you so much,
because someday you will really be shocked at what’s out in the world.”
The Bible
tells us that when Paul discovered an entire city given over to idolatry, “his
spirit was stirred in him.” (Acts
17:16). When he discovered what was “out
in the world,” he didn’t shrug his shoulders in wise, all-knowing
indifference. He was moved.
I hope I never
stop being stirred. Numbness
is a coping mechanism for those who are victimized, not a practice of those who
are living in liberty. Anesthesia is not
a gift for healthy people. The emaciated
prisoners who stared back from bunkers, dull emptiness glazing over their eyes,
were no longer shocked by murder, rape, torture, profanity, abuse, and
starvation. General Eisenhower was. I’m with Ike.
Desensitization
tears down our inhibitions, making us more accommodating of sin. It is a method used on kidnapping victims and
prisoners of war. It is what happened to
the precious Indian girls who were sold into debauchery in Indian temples a
hundred years ago. The more we watch and
listen to sin, the less we can be moved by it.
We cannot be used to sin and
stirred by it at the same time.
The Bible
says that Lot—a “righteous” man, by the apostle Peter’s assessment—was “vexed” from living
in Sodom. His years of surviving in a
world where wrong seemed right, where gross sin was glorified, took their
toll. And like my plastic drinking cups
that now add a sickening floral scent to water, Lot’s life and family were eventually characterized by the sin that probably had shocked him at one time.
We are
commanded to be “simple concerning evil,” and not even to “ask of those things
done . . . in secret.” While God does not want us to be taken
advantage of, we are not to make ourselves students of sin. Anyone who has read the Bible in its entirely
will not be surprised by what man can do.
The Book of Judges? Enough
said. But only God is able to convey sin
in a way that does not corrupt the reader.
Our society
is regularly plagued by people who admit to killing and attacking others
because of the influence of violent video games. Many studies have proven over and over again
that those games make killing machines out of kids. Yet, when was the last time you heard of
someone who beat his brother to death because he read Genesis 4? Likewise, God gives us a glimpse into the sins
Pharaoh, Ahab, Judas Iscariot, Herod, and Jezebel without drawing us into their
sin and thus making sinners of us. The
Bible can discreetly educate us on sin in ways that the world cannot.
David wrote,
“I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes: I hate the work of them that turn
aside; it shall not cleave to me.”
(Psalm 101:3). When making
entertainment and music choices, our question ought to be, “Do I want this to become
a part of who I am?”
We are
plastic. We will become what we listen
to, read, and watch. To choose what you allow into your mind is to
choose who you will become. Choose
well.
“That thou mayest walk in the way
of good men,
and keep the paths of the righteous.” (Proverbs 2:20)
Kristie,
ReplyDeleteThank you again for great thoughts. You put into word many observations. I enjoy reading your blog. Thank you for letting God use you!
Andrea, thanks so much for taking time to read and for your encouragement!
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