Thoughts on covetousness

Proverbs 21:25 – 26, “The desire of the slothful killeth him; for his hands refuse to labour. He coveteth greedily all the day long: but the righteous giveth and spareth not.”

The tenth commandment seems mundane, compared to the first nine. Situated behind murder, adultery, stealing, and lying, the command not to covet almost seems like an afterthought. Yet Proverbs warns us that the desires of the covetous person actually have a very destructive effect. Coveting is a root sin that results in several ugly fruits, including slothfulness, stubbornness, and selfishness.

Coveting is the sin of strongly desiring anything that God has not permitted us to have. This is different from having goals, such as “I would like to own a car someday.” Coveting runs counter to God’s will for my life, since God’s will varies from person to person. What God allows one person to own may not necessarily be God’s will for another person.

I Timothy 6 covers the issue of covetousness. Verse 8 gives us a great outline for what we should expect in this life: “And having food and raiment let us be therewith content.” That’s a fairly short list! Food and clothes. Survival and decency.

Covetousness likes to add to the list of things I need in order to be happy. None of these things are necessarily sinful in themselves, and they may even be God’s will for some people. But if God takes them away, it is wrong for me to complain or to expect others to supply them. My job is to pay for the food and raiment and then let God supply the rest if He desires—either through a job or through unexpected gifts. Sometimes it is tempting to make sure the covetous items are paid for, and then let others pay for the food and raiment. But that would be a sin.

Before we call an agency or church asking them to help us cover our necessities, are there any things on this list that we could cut from our monthly budget?

home internet and/or high speed internet

Netflix

cable/other paid TV

processed foods

dessert

soda

meat every day (Have you explored other healthy forms of protein, such as eggs and meat?)

phones for non-working family members

data and long-distance for phones

subscriptions and memberships

pets

restaurants and/or fast-food

entertainment

concerts

new clothes and shoes (Second-hand stores sell gently used items for less than 5% retail cost.)

brand name items

expensive vehicles

college (Explore ways for students to pay their own way and work as they go.)

vacations, time shares

amusement parks

air conditioning (Exception: Oxygen users might require regulated air in their homes to breathe.)

sports/gym memberships/hunting